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Had SUCH a blast from beginning to end. Challenging yet SO much fun!! Can't wait to go back! The room is very well prepared to test your detective skills. Owen Cook is a Canadian pick up artist widely known as the co-founder of the dating company Real Social Dynamics (RSD) and author of "The Blueprint". He became widely known because of the accounts found in "Neil Strauss' bestseller, The Game, detailing his activities as an early. In addition to the new DSR podcast with Jessica J (norskskovkat.info), check out her program "Speak to Spark Arousal" designed to help men.
These are things I've found work well for me before, so it was nice to see someone else doing the same things. There were many many little tips just thrown out there during the videos - eg Tyler's habit of finding a way to convey the target's interest in him to the target's friends by pointing out her body language; or the observation that if a woman asks you to do something specific to her "bite my neck again" then you should do it - in the Jeffy video the expression on her face after says exactly why.
After Tyler's videos, Nick showed us videos of Jeffy in action. The main video being a single pickup from bar to taxi home. We see the woman repeatedly resisting Jeffy's suggestions that they "get out of here". It's a great example of how to deal with this. Jeffy's game is noticeably different from Tyler's but it is still easy to see the same common principles - persistence, intent, body language, being unreactive and so on.
I was particularly impressed by Ryan's videos. Ryan used to post here on thelss. He comes across as an entirely different character to Tyler or Jeffy, but his style still works for him. Again, with the same RSD principles in common. Notably his persistence in the long set shown where he literally carries the woman out of the club while she is screaming and protesting all the way.
He goes above and beyond the call of duty in not only dealing with having the target spot his hidden camera team, but even having them interview her after the lay. I liked that watching these videos I could see where I'd probably have gone wrong, but could also see how I wouldn't necessarily have been that far from getting a result, either.
I found that very encouraging, especially the fact that none of this needs to be rocket science and that I recognised many things in the videos that I already do or have done. There were plenty more videos, including those from instructors Brad and Alex, both of whom have very different styles. We got to see Brad's unusual line in fluff talk; speaking his mind and being directly physical. Alex's video showed a much wilder variety of party game, filmed right on closing time when the drink must have been flowing pretty freely.
I find it a bit harder to see myself behaving like Alex, but again the videos show how you can fit the principles around your own style.
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Alex's style works for him. His persistence in picking up a girl from the street in front of her mother is incredible. For all it looks unsubtle and crude there are still some surprising little nuances to it.
Like for example the way he exploits auto-pilot responses - "birthday kiss" and "See ya! Finally, not only do we see footage of instructors pulling but we also get a brief shot of Jeffy instructing on a bootcamp and guiding one of his students towards a nice extraction and lay. All of the videos presented during the day were filmed covertly. As such, the quality isn't like watching a TV show, however, I was amazed how close it got, on occasions.
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Night shots tended to be a bit green and fuzzy but sound quality was always excellent. The cameramen have generally done an excellent job of keeping their targets in shot with more than enough detail to see what is going on. RSD also have gone out of their way to film as much of the pickup as possible, in one case following Tyler and his target leaving the club, then walking all the way back to the woman's house. In other videos the "pull" starts in the club, then finishes with the instructor getting in a taxi with their woman, giving directions back to his house.
Jeffy's video finishes with us overhearing him over the radio mic from inside the taxi telling his woman that "The dude's got my keys. I'm going to have to break into my own house. Nothing like the crap you see so often on youtube of guys standing several feet away from women on the street making polite small talk. This is actual club pickup going sexual straight away.
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The seminar finishes with the "high potency interactive exercises" which I felt were a bit of a tack-on. I think we perhaps needed them putting them into context a little more, or maybe having Nick say more about why we were doing them. A system based on inner game and confidence to attract women. Owen finished his collegiate education at Queens University with a bachelor's degree in Philosophy.
He often has referred to the success of his own entrepreneurial venture at an early age while he was at college, which allowed him to pay for university without support from his family and also made him relatively well off at an early age. He has noted that his drive to become rich and successful in business was in large part to compensate for what he felt were weaker parts of himself when it came to getting a girlfriend.
He became frustrated when his success didn't help him with women. In March he announced that he had become a father of a baby son with his girlfriend Roxy of several years see video below.
Pickup Artist Career Owen Cook TD 's interest in pick up artistry began when he was dumped by a long-time girlfriend back when he was still in college. Cook was not able to cope properly with the break-up. Reaching his 'breaking point' and suffering from severe depression, he left school. InCook decided to be a part of the pick-up artist community.
He assumed the alias of "Tyler Durden", as tribute to the novel and film Fight Club which he found inspirational and influential for his will to break out of social norms and constraints. TD as he was known quickly became known for the high volume of good quality analytical posts he made on the pick up artist forum. Sex NYC and Toecutter and got straight into the field, trialling and testing everything he was learning.
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Into further pursue knowledge with-in the dating world, Cook traveled across the U. For much of this trip he was accompanied by Papa Nick Kho as the two had become good friends and wing men.
He stayed with other community members to reduce his costs and coached and helped some of them in exchange for their hospitality.
Some of his attempts to connect with senior pick up artists and learn from them didn't go well. He also traveled to Montreal to meet Toecutter, however Toecutter also known as Steve Celeste and TD didn't hit it off on the right note - Toecutter found him to be arrogant and cut the contact. The Creation of Real Social Dynamics These were the beginnings of what would become a partnership between TD and Papa to create Real Social Dynamics, one of the earliest and today largest and most popular dating companies.
Notably he on these travels he also met Jeffy Jeff Allen and created a bond which would lead Jeffy to become one of the first dating coaches employed by TD later in Real Social Dynamics."-DSR 86- David Tian: Can a Tony Robbins Seminar Help You with Women? "
TD was effectively the creative director, in charge of coaching programs and RSD's content or coaching proposition. Papa focused on the business side of the company and marketing. Not able to afford the rent, he accept the mundane condition of having a closet as a bedroom from Papa's room.
This portion of Cook's life is probably the most famous. With all the events recorded in Strauss's novel "The Game", Cook and his fellow student Nicholas Kho Papa found themselves under the spotlight.
Strauss went into detail on the two's training and how they developed their own insights on the game, learning from him and Mystery and inventing their own concepts. The establishment of Real Social Dynamics by Cook and Papa, and how it is geared to instruct men on socializing with women was also included in the book. In addition, Strauss openly shared his mistrust of Cook through the book. He described Cook as a power-hungry and manipulative person, showing possible traits of a sociopath.
TD's approach to "The Game" at the time was virtually entirely 'routines' based. He has hundreds of memorized routines that he would use and teach to people that they were coaching. Around he alienated some of his friends E. The One through this strong focus, and a backlash in the pick up artist community against purely routine based game. This backlash was magnified by the publishing of "The Game" by Neil Strauss which put a spotlight on some of the routines used by pick up artists.
It became difficult to coach people with many of the routines because there were now so many men going to bars and clubs in L.